To lost guy

Dear Lost Guy,

Many at times you don't see suitable candidates for a very basic reason. You are simply too blinded by whom you thought is the "best". Once you decide to OPEN your eyes, open your HEART to be willing to accept someone else, you will realise that "hey, this is good. That is hot. Pretty girls are everywhere." All you have to do is to embark on the first step: to OPEN your HEART. To be willing to let someone else replace the "best" person in your heart right now.

If you are holding on to a handful of sunflowers, you would have no more ability and "space" in your hand to pick up a stalk of rose, no matter how beautiful that rose can be.

This message goes out to everyone who is experiencing the same situation as Lost Guy. If you are not willing to let go, then you will not able to embrace the future. If you really don't want to let go of your handful of sunflowers, then don't ask people why you are still untaken and single. You have to understand that perhaps you are not the "sun" the sunflower needs.

BUT please don't misunderstand that I'm saying that if you let go, you will immediately to taken and attached. You still need to find the right one at the right moment. Even if its the right one, but the timing is not right, the flowers will not bloom too. Take your time. You are still young. =)

All the best to you, Lost Guy.

Aunt Anonymous.