Remember that there was once we discussed that the tradition for a funeral after death may be displaced soon out later…I agreed at that moment…but now I think setting up a wake for the dead is quite important…I realized it only recently…its to soothe the sorrow in you…reminiscing the thing he/she did for you…the things u all go through together…and make u feel that he/she is still around and hasn’t leave you…getting used to the soul and not he/she physically by your side…the missing will minimize to the lowest…though it may not help for some people…u must used to the fact of he/she has left you…imagine u cant even send he/she off on her last journey and bid the last word of farewell to the dead…it will be the greatest regret in your life…life and death is the harshest reality…



den lin